Given the weather forecast, I decided to carpool in with Cori today and ride the Klein home. I'm not a huge fan of walking out of the office in spandex, but to get my car off the road for the day and get some miles on, albeit road miles, I'm willing to subject myself to a little ridicule.
The part of the ride home I hate most is Route 16, and with good reason. It's only about a mile or so, but it's high traffic and no shoulder to speak of. On top of that, it's pretty commercial, which means lots of turning cars.
I was at the turn off for Killdeer Island Road with traffic steadily passing me on the left. Just as I started to pass by the intersection a red pick up truck pulled up alongside of me to make the right hand turn onto Killdeer Island. I heard the passenger say something to the driver, presumably about my being there, then heard the driver start yelling at me, although I couldn't make out what he was saying. I guess he thought I was (a) supposed to know he was behind me, (b) know that he wanted to turn right and (c) assume he had the right of way because he was in a truck and I was on a bike.
I don't know why he didn't
Anyhow, with him screaming at me, I started yelling back. I believe I commanded him to get over here right now. Maybe not using such nice words. I was trying to convey the concept that I had the right of way, but it came out as I had a right to ride on the road as well, which isn't quite the same. He was hollering that I did have the right to ride on the road, but still had to watch out for traffic. Instead of trying to calm the situation and explain my point rationally, I let myself get wrapped up in an escalating shouting match. At 41 years old, I shouldn't find myself in a situation where someone is saying to me, "You want to do something about it, get over here and I'll kick your ass." At that point I finally smartened up and just rode off.
I had 40 more minutes of riding to reflect on what had transpired. At first I was mad at myself for backing down, but soon came to see that as ridiculous. I then thought of what I actually wanted him to know about sharing the road and wishing I had conveyed that better in my verbal altercation. In the end, I figured out that I had really just wished I had a conversation with the guy and explained everyone's responsibilities when operating on the road.
All I did was make that guy hate cyclists more than he already does. I had the opportunity to make a difference and I blew it. Next time he sees someone on a bike, ten to one he squeezes in on them.
If you know anyone who thinks cyclists don't belong on the roads or that they should yield to all traffic, please tell them that cyclists have every right to be on the road and all the responsibilities of following traffic rules.
For more information on the Mass Rules of the Road governing bicyclists and motorists, click here and scroll to the last three pages of the chapter.

The specific rule covering the situation in which I found myself today was:
"Do Not Make an Abrupt Turn After Passing: When passing a bicycle near an
intersection or driveway where you want to turn right, you cannot turn unless you are at
a safe distance from the bicyclist and you can make the turn at a reasonable and
proper speed. (Chap. 90, Sec 14)"
I'd also encourage all of my cycling friends to review the rules and abide by them. If we don't follow the rules, motorists are not going too feel compelled to follow them either.
Can't we all just get along?
Total miles: 17.9
Average Speed: 19.0 mph